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IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/09/2003 03:27:38 By Gaston Ruiz 1968
This thread has been opened to Honor those Brothers, who are no longer with us. Let us share the good times we had with them. Those of us that knew them and those of us that didn't, have the opportunity to learn more about them and how they touched our lives. Let us not forget them, let us Celebrate the precious times we shared together. They will always be with us in SPIRIT. A Stags is always a Stags.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/09/2003 06:49:59 By Floyd Smock Jr
I'm sure they will be watching us when we all get together.....and will probably be saying...."look at those assholes making fools of themselves"....we will definetly have a drink to them...........I'll have two !!



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/09/2003 07:20:07 By Mark Leopold
I will never forget from 7th grade on fishing in the man made canals with Ricky and Rusty Pippinger. Rusty was one of the best people you would ever want to meet. A great athlete and a kind soul who is missed.

What can you say about Larry Volonino? For all of his tough exterior he was a dear friend and a constant protector of all of us. I never knew a better person and truly miss him and visit his grave site when I'm in town. A huge loss for us all.

And the sweet smile of Joe Machado. A kinder person never walked the face of the earth. Always gracious and a man whose word was golden.

We were so lucky to have known these men.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/09/2003 09:50:05 By Gonzalo Ruiz
AMEN!



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/09/2003 09:53:42 By Gaston Ruiz 1968
I came to this country in august 1959, not knowing what to expect. I was home about one week when this skinny neighborhood kid knocked on our door and ask my brother Gonzalo if we wanted to come outside and play. My brother spoke a little english and said to me ,Gaston go outside and play. I did and once outside this guy threw this ball at me and hit me so hard it almost took off my head. I retaliated by chasing this guy down the block with every possible means to catch him and kick his ass. This same skinny guy became my first and best friend growing up in elementary school. this new friend took it upon himself to help me understand the american way of life and spend numerous hours daily during school and after to help me learn a new language and a way of life . Tommy and I became best friends back then and went thru jr and Sr high together. We were club brothers in Jr & high school.I just wish I could of thanked him for what he ment to me before he passed away. Tommy I'am sure you are watching. Thank you Brother I'll never forget you.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/09/2003 10:18:32 By jack slaton '58
One of the most beloved brothers of our era was a warm and funny(and sometimes funny talking) fellow by the name of Wayne Cabeza, who was a terrific athlete and a favorite of the ladies, not to mention one of the best friends of little d big M. (Sorry to tarnish your bigot image, Dean)
We love you,Bez,and miss you,too, but i bet we'll feel you with us at the reunion...




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/10/2003 07:39:33 By Herb Stebbins 68
The guys and gals who graduated in the mid 60's knew Billy Holloway as the truly gifted person he was. I would have given anything to have his looks, charm and intelligence. Billy had it all.

My story goes back to 8th grade... (I emphasize 8th grade). Billy had use of a MG-B that had a Lucas electrical system that gave him fits. When he had problems with it, I could usually get it running again. On this particular afternoon, I was working under the car and Billy went into my house to make us a few sandwiches. When he came back out, he got my attention through the cowling and handed me the sandwich. (The rest I remember as if it were yesterday). He looked at me with that sh*t eating grin of his, and said "Herb, these are the trials and tribulations of owning a MG-B". Can you believe it? This was an 8th grader talking.

Billy was one of a kind, a good friend and Brother. He will be missed.

Herb Stebbins




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/10/2003 08:22:50 By Herb Stebbins 68
As Gaston said, Tommy Ott was a great Brother and a wonderful friend. I met Tom in second grade at David Farchild Elementary School and stayed close to him till his death in July of 01. From the age of 10 Tommy battled Sugar Diabetes. Later in life this disease led to kidney failure, dialysis and eventually a Kidney transplant. Through this life process Tommy never lost his sense of humor and will to live. Tom was a very religious person, believing that his short stay on earth was just a stepping stone to a eternity with Jesus Christ. Believe me when I say, Tommy loved us all and is smiling down on us today.

Herb Stebbins




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/10/2003 10:48:50 By Larry Silver 66-67
The first time I met Bill Holloway was when he and Chip Presbrey showed up at my house to convince me to join Stags. From that day forward we had great times. I never saw Bill in a bad mood. All of you who knew Bill probably remember the 6 foot music speakers that he built. Was that a party room or what! I will always miss him but, take joy in so many great memories.
Larry Silver




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/10/2003 02:34:59 By janet eaton
Bill (Billy to me) was my friend through junior and senior high. I remember so many times at his house just enjoying our friends and each other. He was always the life of the party, handsome, fun and always looked out for me. He dated Jeran McClain and we double dated many many times. His early death saddens me but I too will always remember him as the caring, charasmatic and loving friend that he was. we were all blessed to have known him. and tommy ott. lived three blocks from me. played the drums, followed me to school at david fairchild elementary, and my friend since the first grade. i saw him in 1988 and we had a great time together. he gave me a cd he had produced. another early loss. but he too, was a good friend who i will always remember.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/10/2003 05:14:45 By John Dannelly, 1957
Wayne Cabeza
Wayne's physical movements were deceiving. He sometimes looked like he was being filmed in slow motion, even though he was moving quickly. I remember one time he was playing third base at the Boys Club. Wayne was about 8 feet off the line. A shot hit by the bag, Wayne backhands the ball and throws out the runner by several steps. The players thought it was a great play. Hank Kline jumps on Wayne because Wayne looked like he was moving so slowly that he wasn't trying.
Wayne was well known for his leaping, one hand catches in Boys Club football. At that age he could float (something like Birdie Henderson).
Charlie Cook was the first person I knew that called him Head. Wayne was so easy going I never knew whether or not he objected to that name. I think he knew it was intended to reflect affection.
I remember a play that Billy Williamson probably remembers. Billy may still carry a silver dollar size scar on his shin from that play. Billy was at short and taking the throw on a play at second. Wayne was the runner on first and slides hard into second giving Billy an unintentional but severe bruise.
Thoughts of Wayne's death sadden us but his memory brings smiles to our faces.
A wonderful brother.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/10/2003 05:27:40 By de Mello
Jack eulogized My good buddy Cabeza, who taught me how to drive a car, keep gas in your tank at an extremely low price and to relieve the Mom and Pop stores of their excessive inventory of the nectar of the Gods. He was a man of honor and a true Stag.

Julian Campbell Spiegle AKA Bodie AKA Tex. Who can forget that 54' Ford with that air conditioning tube sticking out of the back seat with Bodie smoking a Pall Mall. He and I went to every movie in town when others were doing homework. A true Texacan and a great kicker and guard. Both he and Cabeza lettered as Sophomores and each was an exceptional fiend.
Never forgotten and still loved.

Wayne could also change an "F" on the teacher's grade book to a "B" while I stood guard in the hall.

PS Julian and I sold the air conditioner while poverty sticken one summer day.

Bob Kaylor the strongest, wildest, most flambouant guy I knew. He took me into his house when I was living in a Motel room with Spiegle. (John O'day took in Bodie: Cabeza slept in his car a lot) They were a very warm and close family who made me feel welcome. I remember Spiegle Kaylor and I driving to Tallahasse on the trail of feremones getting arrested for drag racing and going to court on a Sunday. The judge had us empty our pockets and took all our money but 50 cents for gas.Bob pleaded for cigarette money but to no avail.
Do you guys remember the MONKEY KILLER cop at Jimmy's Hurricane? He had Bob arrested for dissin' him. and Bob's father came to the scene and called the cop a prick and he got arrested too. I hope we find Joan so she can come to the re-union. God Blees them all.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/10/2003 05:37:41 By Mark Leopold
I never knew Wayne but his brother Dan is a friend of mine (Ching Tang 64'). I was amazed of the mirror likeness of Wayne and Danny. Dan was also a great athlete who looked like he was in slow motion but had great skills. Dan owns a brick company in Florence,South Carolina and has been commuting back and forth from Miami to Florence every week for the past 15 years or so.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/11/2003 00:35:42 By John Dannelly, 1957
Memories of Ed Short, class of 1957.

Me, Ray Peterson and Ed Short returning from a Gables away game somewhere in the middle of the state. Ed spots a 1930s roadster on a farm. Buys it. Talks us into towing the roadster to Miami. No brakes, no lights. No real tow line. Piece of rope. Broke maybe 15 times on the way home. By the time we arrive at Ed's house the rope was just a bunch of knots. After the first time the rope breaks nobody but Ed would sit in the roadster and steer it. Would have been 2-3 hours home, but with the roadster it took us 8-10 hours.

Ed resisted authority even in high school and his resistance increased as he got older. Probably contributed to an early death.

Ed joined the Marines. It was not a good match. Ed was a little guy, about 5'5". His DI had Ed matched against the biggest men in his unit in one-on-one drills. Not once, every time. And the DI had Ed doing double time with a full pack around the unit while they were doing long distance marching. Ed did not fold. He was so beat up and had lost so much weight that his parents did not recognize him when they came to Paris Island for his graduation from Basic Training.

Ed liked living on the edge. I got out of the Air Force in 1961. Looked Ed up. He said he had a great job. Good pay, not hard work. Said he did nothing but ride the railroad tracks driving a specially equipted auto. I asked him what's the catch. Ed said the railroad had a hard time finding guys willing to do the work. It seems the Florida East Coast Railroad was on strike and FEC was having problems with explosives on the tracks and derailings from debris. Ed's job was to drive the tracks in front of the train and to alert the train to bombs and debris.

The midnight rodeos at the hidden ranch just east of Krome Avenue and just south of the Trail...Most of us rode cows and steers. It was fun and relatively safe. Ed was determined to ride the red bull. All that tried the red bull gave up after one or two attempts. To risky. No lights, no barrels, no clowns. Ed took on the red bull more than anyone. The midnight rodeos came to a halt after some a--hole killed a cow. The mid-night rodeo was becoming to popular anyway. At first just 6 or 8 but in a short time 25-30.

My friend, Ed Short. I never understood him but I loved him.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/11/2003 09:44:02 By Chuck Helmly
I to remember Billy Holloway. I remember one of the first times I met him I was still in Jr. high and playing sand lot football somewhere in the Gables or South Miami. Some older high school guys wanted to use the field we were playing on and told us to leave. I remember seeing this guy (Billy) climbing over the fence wearing a Stags tee shirt. He asked the high school guys that were trying to throw us off the field if there was a problem. They all said no and left right away. I remember seeing him years later when he was at the top of his game. He was a very successful Realtor known as the "Condo King of Kendall". I remember going to a really great party at his house in Kendall. He had a large screened patio full of beautiful orchids. He told me they were worth over $ 50,000.
I saw him years later at the "Ranch" and was very sad that things had turned out that way. He was a great guy.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/11/2003 10:07:16 By Chuck Helmly
Great thread Gaston.

I just wanted to recognize my brother Tom (he died of lung cancer last January), Norman Dicks and Chuck Ladd. They were all class of 1970 and were all great guys and loyal Stags brothers. I can remember many wild and crazy times with them which I will never forget.

I also want to recognize Jimmy P. one of the greatest and most loyal of all Stags brothers that I knew. I don't know if he is still among us physically, but I do know as the proud warrior he was, he never came back from Viet Nam, mentally. He will always have a place in my mind and heart. He was definitely one of the most unique people I have ever met. Perhaps he is running the possee up there with Tom, Norman, Chuckie and all the other spirit brothers who have passed on.

I suggest we set a memorial table at the reunion banquet for the "Spirit Brothers" so that they to can dine with us and enjoy the show.

Chuck




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/13/2003 03:21:38 By David Perez
I have been really touch by all of your comments on this thread. Although I didn't know all of these brothers and most were really after my time the comments made me feel as though I did know them.

Your a class bunch brothers.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/14/2003 00:32:00 By Joe Herrera
Volonino was definately one of my closest friends in High School and as Mark says he had a rough exterior but a heart of gold. It broke my heart when he died especially newly wed and all. My oldest son's name is John Lawrence Herrera,the Lawrence he owes to one of the greatest guys I know.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/14/2003 02:29:44 By Gaston Ruiz 1968
The Miami gathering was a real sucess. It provided us with an emotional high that that is almost impossible to be put into words. We were able to just talk about anything and everything . For me it was very gratifying to see and meet with old and new brothers But with all the happyness that I found myself in,it also had certain moments on that evening that brought me sadness. Seeing Chuck Helmly walk in without his sidekicks ,His brother Tommy, Chuck Ladd and Norman Dicks. Seeing Herbie Stebbins and no Tommy Ott. Seeing Larry Silvers and no Holloway ,Glen Cornielson , John Humphies or Joe Clasca . Seeing Joe Herrera and my brother Gonzalo and no Joe Machado. All of these guys would have been there had they had the opportunity ,they were family ,great friends and proud members of STAGS. You all were greatly missed.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/16/2003 09:35:26 By Chuck Helmly
Hey Gaston:

Don't worry, they were all there brother!

They will also be there to party with us at the reunion. You can't seperate the two.

The Stags brotherhood isn't about individuals. It's about the feelings, actions, emotions and accomplishments we were and are still able to generate when we all get together and pool our energies. That was so beautifully apparent at the get together at the fishing club. Even though we had not seen each other in many years, the magic and loyalty was still there. I believe the feelings may even be stronger now than when we were in High school.

Included in that mix are our fond memories of our spirit brothers who have passed on which transend the physical plane. They are the necessary glue that bond us all together to produce the finished product- a Stags brother!




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/16/2003 01:33:52 By Ivan Lopez
Around the corner I have a friend,
In this great city that has no end,
Yet the days go by and weeks rush on,
And before I know it, a year is gone.
And I never see my old friends face,
For life is a swift and terrible race,
He knows I like him just as well,
As in the days when I rang his bell.
And he rang mine but we were younger then,
And now we are busy, tired men.
Tired of playing a foolish game,
Tired of trying to make a name.
"Tomorrow" I say! "I will call him
Just to show that I'm thinking of him."
But tomorrow comes and tomorrow goes,
And distance between us grows and grows.
Around the corner, yet miles away,
"Here's a telegram sir," "My friend died today."
And that's what we get and deserve in the end.
Around the corner, a vanished friend.

Remember to always say what you mean.
If you love someone, tell them.
Don't be afraid to express yourself.
Reach out and tell someone what they mean to you.
Because when you decide that it is the right time it might be too late.

Seize the day.
Never have regrets.
And most importantly, stay close to your
friends and family, for they have helped make
you the person that you are today..

I love you guys (living, and those who are gone)
I will see you all soon

Ivan




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/16/2003 01:57:06 By Chuck Helmly
Right On Ivan!



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/16/2003 03:33:11 By Herb Stebbins 68
Ivan, Charles Towne knew what most of us can't grasp in a life time. I guess it's one of the harsh realitys of life. When the ones we love are gone, it's too late to tell them how much we really cared. Herb



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/20/2003 11:41:28 By John Dannelly
FLOYD BUDDY NEWELL, 1955
Although the Newell family lived several blocks from me, I never knew Buddy until I pledged under him. Later that year he graduated and much too soon he left us forever.
When Buddy learned I lived near him he told me he would pick me up on his way to school. After a few days he began treating me more like a little brother and less like a pledge. When alone, he became my Stags adviser. He told me that when it was just the two of us to forget I was a pledge. But, if I ever did not respect the pledge/member relationship in front of anyone, he would show me no mercy. I never forgot. And, around anyone else he treated me the same as he treated the other pledges.
I wish I had the opportunity to know Buddy for many years. He came into my life, made a big impact and was gone much too quickly.
Buddy Newell, one of the first to teach me how special the Stags relationship can be. I doubt that he realized that his "lessons" would continue to be meaningful almost half a century later. I can still see him behind the wheel of his 1930s coupe, wearing that great smile. We miss you Buddy.
John Dannelly




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/21/2003 09:14:50 By Gaston Ruiz 1968
Not to forget those quiet brothers of the 68-69 years .Dave Lupoli , I rushed David,we first met as we grew up playing Little league football at the Youth Center , Dave was a very good brother to have around and proud to be a Stag. Robert Wood , I met in High School a tough guy who would knock the crap out of anyone that messed with his brothers ,but what a quiet and gentle guy he was . these two brothers were the type to be in the background ,they kept to themselves and always came to the rescue of anyone of us in trouble. you will always be in our hearts and never forgotten.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/23/2003 01:24:34 By Tom Cook
Wayne Cabeza was one of the nicest, funniest and most loyal guys I have ever known, in addition to being an excellent athlete. He just made you feel that no matter what was going on, he would stick with you. Always up and ready to roll.

Julian Speegle was non-stop funny, and had the hardest forearm that ever hit me. Taught me that not all Texan's were a--holes. He also taught me how to smoke. Thanks, Julian, I'm still trying to quit.

So many great guys in Stags.

Tom




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/26/2003 07:55:45 By Terrence W. Grant
Brother Art Pritchard:

Words are tough to come by as Artie and I were close. We pledged together and hung around together in high school. We were arrested together for a minor offense but spent one night in a cell together. Artie was my Best Man for first marriage (he didnt show for rehearsal) so screwed up the ceremony and he was the host of my batchlor party which was reported to the fuzz as well. When I entered the U of Miami I was in aviation management and in Sigma Chi. He took up the same major and the pledged EX with me as his big brother. We sat next to each other at graduation. I moved on for a few years and one day while I was working for Merrill Lynch Artie came in wearing the uniform of a Budweiser Truck driver. I said what you doing...why not come to work with me...he was hired as a broker with me. When I moved on to another firm our relationship became strained as to his soliciation of my accounts which were given to him by management when I left. A few years later I was a buyer of securities for a company and I was Artie largest account. He moved to Atlanta....in the mid 80's Artie called me to talk about me not drinking anymore and I said true and he told me he stopped but cant stay stopped. We comminicated often about this problem. I was unable to attend the funeral as I was testifying in court all that week. I don't know the listed cause of death but I do know the underlying problems. Miss you Boris




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/27/2003 04:03:15 By guess what?????
Once again , we lost one more. Ignacio ( IGGY) Pascual class of 70. I find it hard to comprehend the amount of brothers lost from these years,this makes it 11 brothers. Iggy and I were friends well before Stags was even known to me. My brother Gonzalo and I grew up with Iggy's Brother (Carlos) way back then in Cuba, at La Salle De Miramar Catholic School. In later years we ran into each other and re kindled our old days as kids.Gloria his sister graduated from CGHS in 68 and was my art class buddy. For you all that did not know him you would have a hard time finding a better brother or friend . Iggy was always there when you needed him no questions asked. IGGY I'am going to miss you but you will never be forgotten.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/28/2003 10:14:04 By Tom Cook
The last time I saw Charley Flynn (1960) was in 1962 at the Apalachee Correctional Institution for Offenders 25 and younger. Charley was doing 3-5 years for grand theft. I was a student in an FSU criminology class and visited the prison as part of the class. Saralee Smith was also in the class. As we were going through the prison, I said to her, 'wouldn't it be strange if Charley Flynn was in here' (I knew that he had been arrested for stealing a truck and smashing into a beer store and stealing beer, among other offenses he had committed over time). We went into the bookkeeping dept. of the prison and there was Charley. He clearly was surprised to see me. I said, 'hi Charley, how are you doing?' He said, 'OK', and that he had three years to go on his sentence. Charley was a good guy, good-looking, seemingly easy going, a very good athlete. He could have done a lot with his life. Who knows what happened, why he seemed to get in so much serious trouble. I don't know when or why he died. But he should be remembered as a good guy, a good brother, and from what I observed, a nice guy to everyone he met.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/29/2003 09:39:42 By Terrence W. Grant
My mother Harriett Grant passed away today at 96..she was truly a STAGS CLUB SWEETHEART she took in those that had a little too much to drink and while I was a pledge she made the best MEAT sandwiches for the members that requested them...I had to cancel my business trip to Vegas but will be at the reunion



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/29/2003 10:03:04 By Jerry Carpenter
Terry, Our condolences are with you! Its always very difficult, no matter when. Janey and I will pray for strength for all those involved.
Jerry '65
Janey '65 Sponsor




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 08/02/2003 04:51:44 By Bob Ajhar
I am saddened to see that some of our BROTHERS
have passed away. But my memories will always be
HAPPY. Jimmy Perpich, was a great friend and brother. Jimmy, whereever you are-
Give Me A Big TA-Delt Social handshake





Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 08/03/2003 05:23:24 By Jerry Carpenter
Surely SOMEONE can find Perpich! Bob would obviously love to see him and if Jim knew that... he would like to see Bob. Come on Bros. use your resources !! Jerry '65

Perp, Where ever you are, come in please!!




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 08/05/2003 02:29:23 By Gary Thomasson
Tom....apparently Charles Flynn was released early from Apalachee Correctional Institution. Up until the summer of 1963 I had never met Charlie but had heard about him through a mutual friend, Courtney McClendon. After I graduated (1963) I had a summer job before I left for college at Dynaflex Rod Compamy. To my surprise I found I was working right next to Charlie building fishing rods. As the summer progressed we became good friends. Charlie loved fishing as much as I did. During that summer he shared much of his troubled past with me. I found him to be a tough, rugged guy with a heart of gold. I could tell he'd do anything for his friends.
Unfortunity, we make some of the most important decisions in our lives when we are the most immature and ill-prepared to do so. This might have been Charlie's downfall. I remember to this day, 40 years later, some of the good advice Charlie gave me. I was looking forward to seeing him at the reunion and was shocked and saddened to see that he had passed away. I hope what I have been told since is not true. If it is, it's a sad, sad story to an awful nice guy.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 08/05/2003 01:51:01 By Caleb Estes
Jimmy Perpich.

I find no Jimmy Perpich's listed in the US. There is one Jim Perpich listed in Minneapolis MN., a local call for me. I called and left a message on his machine.

There are 5 James Perpich's listed.
one in Rochester Hills IL. PH# (248)375-1885
one in Oshkosh WI. PH# (920)233-8032
one in Eveleth MN. PH# (218)744-4138
One In Bellevue WA. PH# (425)643-6697
One In Warrenville IL. (James M.) PH# (630)393-2439

There is also a J. D. Perpich in Hialeah. PH# 305-828-2525





Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 08/05/2003 02:17:56 By Herb Stebbins (68)
Caleb, I tried the J.D. Perpich in Hialeah yesterday. J is the first initial of Joan Perpich. I left a message on her answering machines with a request to call me if she knew of Jim's whereabouts. So far, she has not responded.
Jim's Dad lived in PA. and had a different last name then Jim. He used the last name of Polaramo. I tried that approach without any luck so far. Herb Stebbins




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 08/05/2003 05:46:47 By Herb Stebbins (68)
Correction to the last post. Perpich's legal last name was Palombaro.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 08/07/2003 02:32:31 By Chuck Helmly (69)
Hey all of you spirit brothers out there who are no longer physically with us, we do hereby summon all of you to join us and make your presense known tomorrow night and Saturday night at the first annual Stags Reunion. We have reserved a table in you honor!



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 08/11/2003 09:04:11 By Gaston Ruiz 1968
I want to thank all the Brothers, Sweethearts and Sponsors for the thanks that you have given me for the acknowledgement of those brothers that are no longer with us. I am overwhelmed by your e-mails and phone calls. But please let it be said that I don't want to feel like I done something special, this to me was something that I felt was proper. I can not thank Stags enough for giving me the opportunity of being a part of their history. Stags gave me the chance to be able to become part of the American dream. I am thankful for what you gave to me and the least that I could do is to give something back. Many of you may not realize this, but you were family. Seeing the reaction of the Brotherhood and Sisters was too much for me to handle even today. Don't thank me, I need to thank you, from the bottom of my heart. Tau-Delta-Tau and Stags forever..........



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 08/31/2003 02:29:18 By Gaston Ruiz 1968
For your imformation; I'am planning to meet with Coral Gables Sr. High the first week in October to set a time to start planting the Oak trees on the school grounds . I will keep you all imformed on the date.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 10/04/2003 10:04:54 By Gaston Ruiz (Junior)
I will be meeting with the Gables High Administration next week to start the oak tree plantings I'll let you all know about the results.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 10/22/2003 10:37:21 By Tim Yero
There are a couple of other brothers that lost their lives that I knew well. Joe Clasca was one of the funniest and crazy guys anyone ever met. He could keep you laughing - even in competition with Marc Leopold (Maybe draw, now that I think of it!).

Joe was the original inventor of popularizing the the smiley face insignia beleive or not
(T-shirts, signs, stickers etc...) This symbol has become part of our society - whenever I see it, I think of Joe.

He lost his life at home at a very early age (Only a couple of years after High School) by
gun-shot. Seemingly some people he was involved with were not as nice and ceratinly not as funny as Joe was.

Glen Cornelius was a brother as well who tragically lost his life right after High School. He lived a couple of blocks from me and was a couple of years younger. Billy Swain and I recruited him into stags and he became an outstanding member. The women loved Glen because he was better looking than most of us.

He lost his life driving a cab in Coral Gables, about 2 blocks from his house.. shot by a useless robber that probably got a whole $30. Glen was jewel of a guy, quiet and oh yeh... one hell of a football player...

Gob bless these brothers who did not have the opportunities to live out their lives as we have.
And the families they never had, to their surviving family members and to those who knew them that remain.. They will live forever in the heart of the Stags.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 10/27/2003 06:11:30 By Gaston Ruiz 1968
Up date, Herb and I are meeting with Harold Cole Thursday ,to determine the location for the Oak tree plantings . We will let you all know when we will begin .....



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 10/30/2003 05:51:34 By Gaston Ruiz 1968
This morning Herb and I met with Harold Cole at the Gables Campus to map out the locations for the plantings of the oak trees.. ... I will be working on a schedule with Harold Cole in the next week to determine a starting time.We agreed on stablishing particular locations to make sure we can fit the trees in a manner that will allow them to grow without obstruction of the school buildings or any of the sports areas.The following areas as of now are , the corner of Bird Road and Riviera drive, the perrimeter west side from the Baseball field to the track area and the south side of track field, The new building that is going up on the old drivers education and in the three court yard in the interior of the school.I will let you know the starting date.. ...



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 11/23/2003 05:45:15 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
The first 10 trees will be planted on the Riviera drive side of the school the 1st weekend in December, along the Boys Baseball field and followed by the next 10 trees along the Girls Baseball field. I will move on then to the Track field with the next 10.. ...



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/08/2003 05:56:02 By Gaston Ruiz ( 1968 )
We will be choosing the type of plaque this night .Please try to make it if you can.. ...thursday Dec 11th.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/12/2003 11:03:34 By Janet Eaton
what happened last night Gaston? What does the plaque say?



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/13/2003 06:20:49 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Janet , a good mix from the 50's 60's and 70's showed up and we had a great time together... Edgar brought samples of the types of markers available to us and we at least have an idea of what we want .. ... the inscription has not been decided yet,I'm still waiting for some responses from you girls , then we will get down to putting it together with representation from those chosen from all the years. The plaque takes 3 month to make and we talked about having a ceremony at Gables High.. ... I will be contacting the local newspaper so that they can be there.. I will also notify the families of those Brothers that will be Honored so that they too will be present and join us at the dedication.... I will keep everyone imformed thru this thread about the date and time.. ...



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/14/2003 11:12:27 By Janet Eaton
Gaston, Great job. I will not miss the ceremony at Gables! The idea of including families of the lost brothers is a brilliant idea. If you need a mouthpiece for that event, you know I'll help you out.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/14/2003 07:27:28 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Janet, without a doubt you will have to be my better half again.. ...



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/15/2003 06:04:52 By Janet Eaton
It would be my honor.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/17/2003 08:03:04 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
If any of you brothers out there have any suggestions for the wording on the plaque , please e- mail me direct. some of the brothers , sponsors and sweethearts have been giving me some feed back. Please let me know as I need to make it happen before the end of the year. It takes 3 month from time of order.. ... My e-mail is lsrgar@bellsouth.net



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/29/2003 06:26:44 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Brothers ,Sweethearts and Sponsors, I 'm trying to put together a list of the family members from the brothers that are no longer with us . If any of you have an address, e-mail or phone number that can assist me in locating them please e-mail me at lsrgar@bellsouth.net / my reason for asking is that I will be notifing them of the date the plaque will be unveiled at Gables High in their memory. I'm shooting for sometime in march or april 2004 to have the presentation......



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/29/2003 09:42:50 By Terrence W. Grant
Gaston:

Jerry Christman look up is brother Chris on our web... I will try to find contact for Terry Ward..do any of the girls on this sight know where crystal ward (ashe maiden name ) is...john rudd's wife showed up on this site




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/29/2003 09:47:24 By Terrence W. Grant
Paul Kilcoyne has a brother Dennis in Naples but not listed if you call blue heron restaurant 239 6248 they might know as he used to own it...i will try to locate when i get back to lake suzy



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/29/2003 10:22:17 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Terry, thanks , I'll list those names that I have been able to put together and with everyones help we will get as many as we can .. ...



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/30/2003 07:54:11 By Terrence W. Grant
i'll also go to work on finding art pritchards relatives



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/30/2003 08:49:08 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Brothers of the 50's 60's and 70's we are trying to find the families of those brothers on the deceased list ...take the time to help me locate them... this is important..... please do your best in helping me out to make it a succesfull event ... e-mail me with any kind of imformation and i'll do a follow up ...lsrgar@bellsouth.net



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/31/2003 09:55:52 By Chuck Saunders 63
Gaston,

I am going to try to get to the ceremony. Have you selected a date yet? Would appreciate as much advance notice as possible.

Thanks for doing this
Chuck




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 12/31/2003 10:57:58 By Terrence W. Grant
yea me to on advance notice...long trip



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 01/01/2004 06:44:05 By Janet Eaton
Gaston, on the day of the ceremony lets plan a luncheon afterwards to be together again and to honor those not with us. All the people travelling to attend could come together afterwards. Lets pick a restaurant nearby, I'll arrange with the restaurant and we can collect money if necessary.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 01/03/2004 04:29:17 By Chuck Saunders 63
Janet,

Great idea!

Chuck 63




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 01/07/2004 07:31:51 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
I'm ready to make a decision on the plaque, but I still need help locating the family of the Brothers .I have 14 so far guys , I need your help..........get involved this is important.....



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 01/09/2004 10:49:07 By chuck saunders
Gaston,

What kind of help do you need? Be glad to if I can

Chuck




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 01/09/2004 07:30:49 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Chuck, I want to locate as many family members possible..... I will post those names of the ones that I don't have ,next week in hope that we can locate them.....



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 01/10/2004 11:01:25 By Chuck Saunders 63
I'll see what I can do when you post the list.

Chuck




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 01/12/2004 09:28:55 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
IN THEIR MEMORY
FRIENDS, CLASSMATES, BROTHERS, SWEETHEARTS AND SPONSORS. GONE & FOREVER TOGETHER.
STAGS & TAU-DELTA-TAU
1949-1974

**-*** so far this is what I have pieced together from the e-mails that have been sent to me .. Please let me know what you all think ,before the 15th of this month.........My e-mail lsrgar@bellsouth.net




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 01/15/2004 02:13:27 By janet eaton
gaston, i like the memorial language. good job.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 01/21/2004 08:44:38 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
The following list is of the Brothers that I have imformation on their families..I need more help .....
Jim Byrd (1949)
Wayne Cabeza (1958)
Jerry Christman (1955)
Tom Helmly (1970)
Bill Holloway (1968)
Larry Kilbride (1950)
Paul Kilcoyne (1954)
Joe Machado (1964)
George Malvestuto (1953)
Tommy Ott (1968)
Tom Pendray (1955)
Rusty Pippenger (1965)
John Rudd (1958)
David Saunders (1967)
Robert Wood ( 1968)

These are the brothers that Have past away that will have families contacted to be present the day we will dedicate the plaque at Gables High so far....15 Brothers ....WE ARE STILL MISSING IMFORMATION ON 35 Others.....

Please help me out or we will never get this done.....the longer it takes to provide me with the necessary imformation the longer that it will be before we HONOR them..... I'm aware that we can't find them all, but this is really sad .. ...How can we say (GONE ,BUT ALWAYS REMEMBERED) HELP Guys .......




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 01/22/2004 03:06:15 By Chuck Saunders
Gaston,

Do you need any thing on my brother, David Saunders??

chuck




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 01/22/2004 05:07:26 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Chuck thanks, but David was from my days and everything I need I have on him. I;ll keep in touch with you by E-mail....



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 01/24/2004 10:42:37 By Chuck Saunders
Thanks Gaston



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 02/16/2004 09:37:33 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
While at Gables High last week ,looking thru the yearbooks to find pictures of those Brothers no longer with us ,something hit me right accross the face. HOW ABOUT THE SWEETHEARTS and SPONSORS that have also died and we have no way of knowing .. ... They were just as much a part of this ELITE group as we were..... Shouln't we look for then and also Honor them????? Come on people spend a little of your time and try finding out......let me know. oo-ooo



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 02/27/2004 07:31:57 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
The plaque has been ordered, Edgar Meneses ,and I finally put it together and he tells me it takes about 60 days to make .... Once I find out how close we are to getting it I will notify you all and set up a date for the event at Gables High... If you have any questions e- mail me at lsrgar@bellsouth.net



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/19/2004 05:11:32 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Got e-mail from Edgar Meneses today in reference to the Plaque.He will notify me as soon as it is completed and I will post the date and the time for the dedication at Gables High.... It seems that we will be shooting for the middle of may as of now......



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/30/2004 06:07:25 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
If all goes well with my meeting this week with Gables we will finally start planting the smaller oaks this weekend........



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 04/13/2004 07:50:23 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Edgar , e-mailed me and it looks like the plaque will be ready in a couple of weeks ....Once I have the plaque, I will set up the time for the unveiling at Gables High...sorry for all the delays ...it has not been an easy task to complete and I apologize for all the delays .....



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 04/14/2004 03:03:40 By John Dannelly
Gaston, you do not need to apologize for anything. You undertook a major task that is taking a lot of effort. The oaks and the plaque will be a rememberence of Stags living and dead for a long, long time. Probably as long as there is a Coral Gables Senior High. That is probably longer than any Stag will live. We appreciate the considerable time, effort and funding you are investing in this project. Your project is something I will show to my grandchildren with great pride. And, I hope my grandchildren will visit the campus with their children.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 04/14/2004 11:34:10 By Terrence W. Grant
Gastonnnnnnnnn

I ditto John D. comment no need for you to apologize about anything (except maybe being non-handsome) your doing a great job and WE appreciate the effort...please give me as much advanced notice as possible so I can be there.

Your bro and pal

Terry




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 04/16/2004 03:25:57 By chuck helmly
Gus,

Just wanted to check to see if Norman Dicks and Chuck ladd are on your List.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 04/16/2004 05:30:24 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Yes .....



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 04/20/2004 05:57:55 By chuck helmly
Hey Gus:

Let me know if you need any help.

See you on thursday.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 04/22/2004 05:25:57 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Got e-mail from Edgar today, about the plaque...he will be at BNO tonight to bring me an update on the time of delivery.....I will pass on the imformation to all of you .....



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/06/2004 07:56:34 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
I will be meeting with Edgar tomorrow hopefully and pick up the plaque.....its finally completed......next thing will be setting a date for the presentation ......



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/07/2004 06:44:48 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Just to let you all know the plaque is completed...I met with Edgar today and picked it up..... ITS A BEAUTIFULL THING......what a great feeling , I'am so proud to say ,that it was and is a privilege to be a member of STAGS and TAU-DELTA-TAU . We will never be forgotten and always be remembered.....00-000



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/07/2004 07:54:52 By Herb Stebbins 68
I had the pleasure of seeing the plaque.
It will make everyone proud.
Believe me when I say that this will not only honor our "Brothers Past" but will bond Stags Club to Coral Gables High School forever.
Brothers, you will be proud.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/22/2004 09:46:28 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
For your imformation , Finally next week I will be planting the first 20 oaks.........on the campus.........the rest will be planted as I get the ok......



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/23/2004 00:59:19 By john scopetta 68
Gus let us know when you are going to brake ground with the trees I for one would be honored to walk out on the Gables field to observe the ground braking. Keep us posted. And as usual great job!!!!



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/26/2004 01:30:42 By Janet Eaton
I want to be there too!



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/26/2004 11:19:20 By john scopetta 68
For those of you that have not heard Isidro Jauregui's Mom passed away on Monday, she was a great lady and kept us Stags, Key Rats in line during our teenage years. Our best wishes are with you Ike, God Bless you and your family during this difficult time. Love you. Your friend and brother for life.... John



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 06/28/2004 06:31:42 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Just to let the Brothers know Julio Manguart class of 1971 , passed away this morning . My prayers are with him and his family.......oo-ooo



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 06/29/2004 09:10:56 By H. B. Stebbins (68)
If anyone has any information on the funeral of Julio Manguart please post it. I tried the number on the Stags website and that is a business office that is closed. Directory assistance didn't work eather. If any body has a home phone number please let me know.
Thanks,
Herb




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 06/29/2004 10:26:59 By john Scopetta 68
Herb, I will know soon my brother is very close to him and his college roommate as soon as I have any info I will post it on this site it was a real tragedy. His wife is a Delta flight attendant for many years and she was traveling so it could be a couple of days before arrangements are finalized.
I had the pleasure of visiting with him a few weeks back when he did the closing on my house and he was in good spirits and very positive a real gem off a guy. We will deeply miss him but not as much as his kids they adored julio....John




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 06/29/2004 03:06:48 By Carlos Villalta
I'm both shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of my friend Julio Manguart.We go back over 35 year's, having attended JR.HIGH;SR.HIGH & COllEGE together.Althou I had not seen much of him over the last several year's are frienship was more like of family.He was very instrumental in my joining Stags.I'll never forget the time at Gables High during a football scrimmage he came up to me wondering why his shoulder pads were choking him (he had them on backwards)or the time during a game at the Orange Bowl he was send in to replace a player and (accidently) found himself in a state of confusion(he was in the other team's huddle).When he and I drove somewhere together we would always be lost and arrive hour's later on what should of been a 15 minute drive.
Julio was a gentle and kind man with a big heart .Now that he's gone i'm left with wonderful and happy memories of him.May GOD BLESS HIM.My prayer's go out to his wife Julie and their two children.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/12/2004 08:10:39 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
As another Brother gets added to the list ......I would like to see the Brothers show up to his service...Juan Coy Class of 73 will be at Caballero funeral home tomorrow night for prayer services... the last two weeks have been saddened by the loss of Julio Manguart and now Juan Coy two young men that left us way too soon.... Guys take a moment and reflect about your lifes today ..... its only a phone call away to hear from someone ,that another one of us is no longer with us ....lets put a few hrs of our hecktic lifes aside for a moment and call a brother or a sister from the past ...How hard is it??????? it could be you next time ... what a waste it would be ...its not that hard to pick up the phone and now we have e-mail.......if you care try , if not how sad will it be when you get the call... There may not be another chance to reach out and say hello.......



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/13/2004 02:38:56 By John Dannelly
Regarding Juan Coy...
I did a search in The Miami Herald obits under Juan Coy but the search did not produce any finds.
If I can reschedule an appointment I have this evening I will attend the Juan Coy service. Please show your respect for a fallen brother; these services help the family work through a difficult time. Do your best to be there; you will discover both you and Juan's family will benefit.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/19/2004 07:08:46 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Met with Harold Cole today....WE HAVE A FINAL SPOT FOR THE MEMORIAL OAK and PLAQUE finally....all I need to do now is get a feed back from you all an a date that will be good for the Ceremony please e-mail me lsrgar@bellsouth.net ....this is important guys and gals.....I don't want to leave anyone out and I do want to contact the families... get back to me ASAP......



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 08/04/2004 06:57:27 By Chuck Saunders 63
Gaston,

As usual, the more lead time you can give me, the better the chances of getting down.

Appreciate all you've done,

Chuck 63




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 08/23/2004 08:09:23 By Kay Spitzer
Gaston,

If you will look on the final page of the Reunion Book you'll see a list that we had compiled to that date of the deceased Brothers.
I know of no Girls.

Thanks for all you hard work. I know it will be spectacular.

Kay




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 10/29/2004 00:50:33 By John Dannelly 1957
Gaston, read the 10/28/2004 posting by Jim Stacey on the NOT A STAG BUT AN OLD FRIEND thread regarding Jim's question on where is the memorial at CG Senior High? Maybe an update on this thread would be appropriate.

Johnny




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 11/07/2004 07:14:29 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Guys , seeing Jack Lambs entry about the 64-65 reunion this summer. I think it will be a great time to put the memorial in place at Gables... I have asked for suggested days and the response has not been good to date...Jack like I said before I'll contact you this week and see if we can get this done ..Its a great idea to do it then...The guys from 64-65 were the ones that provided the opportunity to those of us in the later years to be a part of this great organization....I will do what ever it takes to complete this on the thursday before the reunion.since there will be a sock hop at the school..... make the contacts to all those from all the years and make it a moment to always remember....



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 11/09/2004 11:48:56 By Terrence W. Grant
Gastonnnnnn and Jack...I will be there to support the planting...the class of 64 and 65 and the sock hop...i will bring my Russi...Gastonnnnnnnnn I think you should put this on seperate site and dove tail 64 65 for Jack



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/07/2005 07:04:00 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
Brothers and Sisters , I just received e-mail from Jim Kavney....This morning his wife Helen passed away. Jim has asked that in lieu of flowers , we send a contribution to the Hospice Care of Southeast Florida or The American Cancer Society.....services will be held on thursday March 10th 2005, from 7-9pm at Beyers Funeral Home 101640 Overseas Hway (U S 1) Key Largo Florida 33037 ....Jim , we are all saddened to hear of your loss ...I personally want you to know that I'm so glad to have had the opportunity to meet Helen ....She will be missed by all . My prayers to you and your family as I know that we will greatly miss a member of our Stags family....00-000



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/07/2005 08:48:39 By Terrence W. Grant
Jim...ditto to Gaston's well phrased statement. As a friend and brother for over 50 years my condolences to you and your family. When we talked today I shared with you the plight of dealing with cancer. Russi and I will not be able to be in attendence for the services; as Russi too was diagnosed with lung cancer and we will be going thru the admission process at Moffit Cancer Center in Tampa.

Brother Terry G




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/08/2005 12:10:11 By Janet Eaton
Jim,
As a sweetheart to this great organization, and one who keeps in contact with you all by viewing this web site, I am deeply saddened to hear of your wife's passing. My thoughts are with you at this time of mourning,and I wish for you a time of healing comforted with the many loving memories you will hold forever.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/08/2005 12:12:06 By Janet Eaton
Terry,
I wish for you too a time of healing and pray that you and your wife receive the medical attention to prolong your lives for many years to come. My thoughts are with you both.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/09/2005 04:47:13 By John Dannelly 1957
We have had to much sad news over the last several days.
We have lost Helen Kavney, followed by the news of de Mellow's surgery for lung cancer, and now I have learned that Russi's (Terry Grant)lung cancer surgery is scheduled for April 7.

Expressions of concern by friends and family can be a powerful aid. Please remember these brothers and sisters in your prayers. They and their families can use our support during these difficult times.

For those that would like to make a contribution to honor the memory of Helen Kavney, please consider a contribution to Hospice Care of Southeast Florida, Inc., 1200 NW 78 Avenue, Suite 101, Miami, Florida 33126, 305/299-7755.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/10/2005 08:32:19 By John Dannelly 1957
From the obituaries in The Miami Herald, Thursday, March 10, 2005

KAVNEY, HELEN A., passed away on March 7, 2005, after a year's battle with cancer. Helen was born June 1, 1936 in Kingsland, Georgia. She is survived by her husband of 43 years, Jim Kavney of Islamorada, FL. Her daughter Karen Kavney Traweek of Kingsland, GA. Her son Jim Kavney Jr. of Miami, FL. Her sister Mary Sneed MacAdams of Live Oak, FL., and her sister Melva Brown Swiegart of Kingsland, GA. Helen lived with her husband in Islamorada, Florida for 16 years. Prior to that they lived in Miami, Florida.
To visit this Guest Book Online, go to
www.herald.com/obituaries




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/10/2005 10:26:28 By Ivan Lopez and Zaida Lopez
MEMORIES KEEP THOSE WE LOVE CLOSE TO US FOREVER


Jim,

Although words seen to say so little
I hope they help in a small way to ease
the sense of loss that you're experiencing
today. From my entire family our thoughts
and prayers are with your family.


Hold fast to your memories,
to all of the cherished moments
of the past,
to the blessings and the laughter,
the joys and the celebrations,
the sorrow and the tears.
They all add up to a treasure
of fond yesterdays
that you shared and spent together,
and they keep the one you loved
close to you in spirit and thought.

The special moments
and memories in your life
will never change.
They will always be in your heart,
today and forevermore.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/10/2005 10:27:17 By RICK ARNAIZ
JIM, I'M SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE TERRIBLE NEWS. EVEN THOUGH I'VE ONLY KNOWN YOU FOR A SHORT TIME, IT FEELS LIKE I'VE KNOWN YOU FOR YEARS, YOU ARE THAT TYPE OF BROTHER. OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU & YOUR FAMILY. IF YOU NEED ANYTHING PLEASE CALL ME.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/10/2005 01:06:22 By DAVID
JIM, I AM VERY SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR WIFE. I ONLY MET YOU THAT ONE TIME DURING THE STAGS NIGHT OUT IN AUGUST 2004.

YOU MADE ME FEEL AT HOME WITH PEOPLE I NEVER KNEW BEFORE AND SOON BECAME NEW FRIENDS WITH THEM.

YOU ARE A SPECIAL PERSON. YOUR WIFE WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR ANGEL WATCHING OUT FOR YOU FROM ABOVE.

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS TIME.

IF THERE IS ANYTHING I CAN DO TO PLEASE FEEL FREE TO CALL ME.

DAVID





Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/11/2005 06:45:29 By Carlos Villalta
Jim,I'm saddened to hear of the passing of your wife Helen.I once spoke to her on the phone regarding the Stags reunion,she was very sweet & helpful.I remember thinking what a lucky guy
you are to have a wife like Helen.God bless her and all your family.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/20/2005 05:12:48 By Sylvia Jenkins Attwood
Jim: I think I read on one of the e-mails about the passing of your wife Helen. Although I don't know either of you I send you my sympathy. Loosing a mate no matter what the reason is a hard thing to do. Keep living your life as you know she would want you to do. Please send me your mailing address: I have a picture that was taken at our 1954 -50 class reunion in September. It is some of the Tallet sisters from that year. Boy did we all ever change! Again accept my condolences on your loss and you will be in my daily prayers. sylvia jenkins atwood






Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 03/20/2005 05:14:33 By Jim Kavney
I would like express my sincere gratitude to the so many of you that send e-mail, cards, notes on the message board and specially those of you who traveled to the Keys for Helen's Memorial & Celebration of Her Life Service. The kind words that you have given me and my family will long be remembered. The support you have given me makes the burden a little easier. I'm doing fine 98% of the time, but there are a few teary moments that come out of the blue every now and then. I know it will get better as time goes on.

Again thanks for your support!

Jim Kavney




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/05/2005 08:53:09 By John Dannelly 1957
Lewis J. Mertz, 1937 - May 2005
To visit the Guest Book Online or for the complete obituary printed in the May 5, 2005 edition of The Miami Herald go to www.herald.com/obituaries.

Portions of the Lewis J. Mertz obituary follow.

A gathering to celebrate his life will take place on Friday, April 6 at 3600 SW 1st Avenue, Miami, at 6 PM. Call 305/525-7217 for further information.

Graduated from Coral Gables Senior High School, attended the University of Miami, inducted in the UM Iron Arrow.

He began his police career with the Coral Gables Police Department retiring after 28 years as a Major, he was a graduate of the FBI National Academy, after CG he was Chief of Police at Indian Creek Village Police Department, and later a Major with the Key West Police Department.

Survived by his former wife June, a nurse in Miami; son Lewis, Jr., an attorney in Miami; and son Howard, a firefighter and paramedic in Miami.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/06/2005 04:57:00 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
My mother-in-law,Theresa Scherr Salone passed away last night May 5th, after a long battle with a congestive heart ailment ,surrounded with her children and grandkids.... This Feisty old lady was a tough fighting Italian woman , that never complained.....I ask for your prayers for my wife Linda and the family.... I also like to mention the greatnest of this Stags family in a great time of need... as my mother-in -law was laying there in the last hours of her life ..I contacted Edgar Meneses to assist me in preparation as time came to and end....late last night Edgar, took it upon himself , thru the funeral co. that he works for to make sure that I could spend the quality time needed that was left ...Edgar you are a true friend and brother, we thank you....



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/06/2005 05:57:49 By Jim Kavney
Gaston, I'm sadden to hear of the loss to your family. Please give Linda my love and assure her my thoughts are with her in this time of sorrow.

Jim Kavney




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/06/2005 07:36:03 By DAVID
GASTON, I AM SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE LOST OF A LOVED ONE. YOUR MOTHER-IN-LAW IS WATCHING OVER YOU, YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR DEAR WIFE. ON BEHALF OF MY WIFE AND I WE WILL PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY DURING THIS TIME OF SORROW.

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR ENTIRE FAMILY.

DAVID AND PAM STEGER




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/08/2005 02:11:22 By Jim Kavney
Sad to report the passing of the wife of one of our Brothers. Claude Thomas (1951) wife Dorothy passed away yesterday. I first met Claude on the phone 6/3/03, while finding Brothers for the Reunion. On that day of my call, Claude had just brought Dorothy home from the hospital after nearly losing her. We must have talked for nearly an hour Claude was very enthusiastic about the Reunion. But, said due to Dorothy's heart and respiratory problems he would not be able to attend.
When Helen and I took a train ride this past summer we stopped in California and spent a delightful evening with Claude. I never personally met Dorothy, but from the time I spent with Claude I know she was deeply loved by him and all their friends.
Our thoughts are with you Claude.

Jim




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/08/2005 02:49:13 By Manny Garcia 68
Gaston and Linda:

I so sorry to hear of your loss, our prayeirs and thoughts are with you in this difficult time.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/09/2005 09:52:07 By Gaston Ruiz
Gaston, I was sad to hear about death of mother-in-law, having lost my own mother resently I truely understand the what Linda must be feeling.

My prayers are with all of you.

Rolando Valdes 72'




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/09/2005 10:24:46 By John Dannelly 1957
THERESA SCHERR, 1928 - May 5, 2005
Theresa (Tessie) Scherr is the Mother-In-Law of Gaston Ruiz (Stags 1968).

From the obituary published in The Miami Herald, May 9, 2005...

Retired from South Miami Hospital in 1978. Prior to retirement she was a volunteer contributing 10,000 service hours.

Survived by her children and grandchildren. Daughters Carol (Tony) Quairoli, Linda (Gaston) Ruiz, Stephanie Scherr, and son Jerome Scherr Jr. Grandchildren Kristi and Nick Quaroli, and Kelly and Gaston Ruiz Jr.

Burial services will be private.
Friends may visit May 9th from 7-10 PM at Memorial Plan Funeral Home at 9800 Coral Way.

In liew of flowers charitable contributions may be made to MacTown or Community Habilitation Center serving the mentally disabled.

To visit her Guest Book Online or for the complete obituary, go to www.herald.com/obituaries

The thoughts and prayers of all Stags Brothers and Sisters are with the family during this difficult time.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/10/2005 10:43:35 By John Dannelly 1957
JACK SWEENEY, Stags Club, Class of 1955

It saddens me to report the death of another brother. This morning I talked with Jack Sweeney's ex wife. LaRue confirmed that Jack died on June 28, 2003.

Jack was a good friend. One of my Jack Sweeney memories is how charming and entertaining he was, especially on stage ("The Four So and So")and at a party.

For a photo of Jack in a party environment click on Tau Delta Tau Alumni Association Scrap Book in the column on the left of the screen. About 45 photos from the beginning, Terry Ward (1955) and Jack Sweeney (1955), both deceased.





Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/11/2005 02:23:41 By Carlos Villalta
Gaston, very sorry about the loss of a loved one in your family. My prayers are with you all.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/13/2005 10:28:40 By RICKY ARNAIZ
SO SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOSS. AS WE GET OLDER WE JUST HAVE TO BELEAVE IN LIFE AFTER DEATH MORE THAN EVER ,IN ORDER TO COPE WITH THE PASSING AWAY OF OUR LOVE ONES & OUR MORTALITY.
GOD BLESS
RICKY




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/13/2005 10:51:00 By John Dannelly 1957
Ricky, well said. When we were young, the death of someone we loved was something we rarely had to deal with. Now, (and it certainly is going to become more frequent) I learn of the death or a friend or family member several times a month. My belief in God, a strong faith, and the expectation of an eternal joyful life for the soul have been essential for my mental health. Without those beliefs I know the deaths of those I love would have resulted in permanent emotional trauma. Belief in an eternal life for the soul provides the comfort of knowing that, for those that have lived a full life, death is not always the enemy.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/13/2005 06:57:26 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
My family , will like to thank all of you who took the time to call , e-mail , call and come by the funeral home to show your respect ...... Its so great to see and feel your love and prayers in a time of need ..... Linda AND I thank you....the Ruiz Family ......OO-OOO



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/16/2005 07:32:27 By Marie
Gaston, I send you, Linda and the children my prayers and love



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/17/2005 09:53:49 By Janet Eaton
Gaston and Linda,
My thoughts are with you during your time of loss and grief. Gaston, she gave you the best gift she ever could by giving you a loving and long term wife....




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 05/17/2005 10:53:13 By john scopetta
Gus, I am sorry about Linda's mom is terrible to loose a parent, lets get together soon I miss you guys!!!



Re: Dr. Robert EdwardsPosted at 06/20/2005 08:41:44 By Jerry Carpenter
Dianne Edwards'(Thorington)(Sponsor'66)father passed away on June 12th. He was a Chink at Ponce decades ago. The Edwards' house on San Remo was "the place" for many of us in the 60's. Our thoughts and prayers are with June, Dianne, David, and Gail during this difficult time.
http://www.legacy.com/Link.asp?Id=LS14274212X
Janey and Jerry




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 06/20/2005 12:51:26 By Janet Eaton
I was sorry to hear of Dr. Edwards death. David was a friend of mine and I spent many many days at his house on San Remo. Your right Jerry, many of us hung there during the 60s. I read recently that David is in the banking industry in Boca Raton.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 06/21/2005 00:20:59 By Janet Eaton
Yes, Gail was an actress. A successful television actress in the seventies and eighties.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/22/2005 08:20:51 By John Dannelly 1957
A DELAYED ANNOUNCEMENT

PARENTS OF TIBBY BURROUGHS
Charles "Tibby" Burroughs (1956) lost both his mother and father in a four day period. Katie E. Burroughs, age 93, died on June 8, 2005. Charles C. Burroughs, age 98, died on June 12, 2005.

The obituary notice was published in The Miami Herald on June 15. Funeral services were held in Edina, MN on June 18. I called the funeral home on June 17 and was advised, incorrectly it turns out, that surviving son Charles C. Burroughs was not Charles "Tibby" Burroughs. This afternoon I received an email from Tibby confirming his loss.

Survivors include children Donald D. Burroughs, Betty Jo (Robert) Fulgency, and Charles C. (Rita) Burroughs, and nine grandchildren.

To visit the Burroughs' guest book online, to to www.herald.com/obituaries.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/28/2005 05:55:39 By Terrence W. Grant
I just received word that Nick Kotys died this morning.....I sent obit to Jim to post in the proper spot....if anyone else knows how to post let me know and I will send it to them if Jim is away.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/28/2005 06:05:46 By Jim Kavney
Considered a coaching legend in Florida, Nick Kotys died on July 28, 2005. He was 92 years old. Preceded in death by his beloved wife Frances “Jeri” Kotys. He is survived by his son Bill Kotys of Columbus, OH and Judith Kotys Summers of St. Michaels MD. Grand daughters, Nancy Kotys Lincoln (David Lincoln), Andrea Kotys Miller (Adam Miller) Nicole F. Kotys, Heather Summers Karwisch (Mark Karwisch) great grandsons Blake Miller, Mitchell &Alexander, Karwisch & great granddaughter Chloe Karwisch .
Born in Monessen, PA April 3, 1913. A 1936 graduate of Villanova University, Nick began coaching in Shickshinny. Bloomsburg, and Pottsville, Pennsylvania where he complied thirteen-year record of 98 wins, 24 losses, and 7 ties. Became Backfield Coach and Offensive Coordinator at Yale University in 1949, during which time he coached in 5 College All-Star Games. Became football coach at Coral Gables High School Florida in 1952. During the next 20 years Coral Gables won 160, lost 33 and tied 9 and were named State Champions 6 years and National Champions 4 years. Named National High School Athletic Coaches association football “Coach of The Year” in 1967. Selected Florida Athletic Coaches Association Football “Coach of the Year” four times. Elected to the National High School Football Coaches Hall of Fame, the Villanova College Hall of Fame, and into the Florida Sportswriters and Sportscasters Hall of Fame. His legend lives on through the annual Nick Kotys award given to the best football player in Dade County Florida. He will long be remembered for his inspirational halftime speeches, his dedication to perfection on the football field and in the classroom. He is beloved by his players and assistant coaches who knew him to be dedicated to excellence in every facet of his life. He was emulated by his players who learned the lessons of life through his teachings on the field and in the classroom. He will be missed most of all, by his children and grandchildren who loved him beyond measure.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/28/2005 06:11:37 By Terrence W. Grant
Thanks Jim for the quick posting. I made one phone call on the news and that was to Joe Atwood who in my opinion was Mr. Football for TDT/STAGS for all time. Joe represented/represents all the compassion, leadership and brotherhood that a TDT athlete tries to achieve.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/28/2005 07:57:03 By Bob Injaychock
For all of the brothers who played and knew Coach Kotys, today is tough. Coach as been ill for over 10 years and after his wife died, he has had a hard time dealing with that. I spoke with my dad tonight to give him the news and we was touched but not sadden, knowing Nick is in a much better place.
You can contact his son Billy at bkotys@earthlink.net
Thanks for the post Jim.

Injay




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/29/2005 08:50:03 By Caleb Estes
Funeral arrangements for Coach Kotys.

Viewing will be from 6pm to 8pm Sunday at Schoedinger Funeral Home, N. High St. Worthington, OH

Mass of Christian Burial will be held at St. Peter’s Catholic Church, Columbus, OH. 11:00 AM Monday August 1st.





Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/29/2005 09:59:21 By sylvia.atwood
Terry: Thanks for calling Joe. Coach Kotys' paid a very important role in his life. The Coach was not only loved by all his players but by all the students. He truly is a legend and I bet the Good Lord has big plans for him in Heaven. sa



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/29/2005 04:11:29 By Caleb Estes
I just spoke with Bill Kotys.

The Kotys family has requested that instead of flowers, you may make a donation in Nick’s memory to:

American Heart Association
5455 N. High St.
Columbus, OH 43214
phone: (614) 848-6676
fax: (614) 848-4227




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 09/14/2005 04:00:10 By John Dannelly, 1957
Reported by Silva Jenkins Atwood on "The Meaning of Brotherhood" thread...

A brother (Joe Cotton, 1953) needs our help. Billy Cotton, Joe's brother, told Silva that Joe's wife died on September 13. Joe needs the support of the brothers and sisters. Send your letters and cards to:

Joe Cotton
Box 113
Alberta, AL 36530





Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 09/14/2005 04:27:21 By
John, a beautiful card was sent to Joe yesterday. In the card were deep feelings and comforting words, from the Brothers of Stags.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 09/15/2005 10:09:15 By John Dannelly, 1957
BERNARD (BEN) SIMONETTI died on September 7, 2005. He was 97 years old.

Mr. Simonetti is the father of Jack Simonetti, Stags Club, 1959.

I talked to Bernadette Simonetti, Jack's sister, this morning. Jack is traveling from the Chicago area and will be arriving in Miami today.

Visitation is tonight, Thursday, September 15 from 7 to 9:30 pm at Salgado-Van Orsdel Funeral Home, 9300 SW 40th Street. The funeral home is on the south side of Bird Road opposite Bird Bowl.

A celebration of Mr. Simonetti's life will be at Coral Gables Congregational Church, 3010 De Soto Boulevard, Coral Gables at 10:30 am on Friday, September 16.

Your asssistance in alerting Jack's friends that live in the Miami area is requested.

For the obituary on Benard Simonetti go to
www.herald.com click on obituaries in the left column, enter Simonetti in the display box and click on search.





Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 09/15/2005 09:17:50 By Terrence W. Grant
Many of you SKEPTIC'S say how could I have done so many things during my short stay on this earth...one of the true pleasures I've had was to be a friend of Benny. Not only was I a friend but he and I sat next to each other as brokers at Merrill Lynch and he lived two doors away from my parents on San Servando. Benny was my hero as a broker. While I was prospecting for new accounts and trying to make a living getting an order for 50 shares of stock; Benny would be reading THE RACING FORM and his phone would ring with the client saying "Buy me a thousand shares at the Market" Benny would have a bet on every stakes race available to him and he would wind up his day by playing Gin at the Riviera Country Club. A truly great guy who would give you the shirt off his back. One other funny note...my dad promised my mom he would give up the PUPPY's (dog track)didn't do it of course and he hid all his old racing programs in Benny's garage and he would go for a nightly walk for exercise and he and Benny used to go thru the programs and hustle down to the track to get that winning bet in.

I've been in touch with Jack lately and my best to he and the family. When I received word of Benny's death I was at a hearing in Tampa and unable to get to Miami in time for service.

Terry




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/14/2006 05:24:06 By John Dannelly 1957
Brother Jerry Christman 1955

Last night I was stopped at a traffic signal at the intersection of Galloway Road (SW 87th Avenue) and SW 104 Street. I glanced at the road identification sign below the signal and was surprised to discover that section of Galloway is also known as the Officer Jerome Christman Memorial Highway. I have driven through that intersection hundreds of times and never noticed that designation.

Today I made some telephone calls and ended up talking to a representative of the PBA. I was advised that a few years ago the PBA began a program to recognize fallen officers. The PBA is mailing me a copy of the information on Jerry. When I receive that information I will share it via the message board.

The PBA representative said their system did not have information on the Christman family so it is possible that Mel, Jerry's older brother, is not aware of the memorial to his brother. I gave the PBA contact information on Mel.

Jerry was a runner. He was on the Gables track team. I think his best event was the mile. If I remember correctly he had one of the best times in the state in the mile, maybe even a state record at the time.

Jerry died in a traffic accident on December 3, 1960. He was responding to a burglar alarm. He was 23.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/18/2006 02:47:04 By Mel, Chris Christman
Jerry a brother I had for a short 23 years but in my thoughts many times a year. In April 28 2006 at Tropical Park the Police Officer Assistance Trust had a sunset service for all men and women who have fallen in the line of duty. Each officer name is placed on the wall and Jerry is there under "Jerome R. Christman"
The situation of his death was he was responding to a silent alarm at a bank in South Miami, going at a high speed and approaching an intersection and only had his red light on a lady started in to the intersection, the accident report stated that Jerry took evasive action so as not to crash into this car and saving her life. At that time most police cars did not have safetybelts, takeing this action his car crashed in to a large telephone pole and without any protection he died in the collision.
A hero to the very last. Many brothers and friends knew that Jerry loved his job as a Police Officer. He left a wife who was 9th month pregnant, born Jan 12 1961 Named Jerrilynn.




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/18/2006 03:01:05 By Herb Stebbins(68)
Mel and John, I had never seen that tribute to Jerome until today. I was returning home from a friends house and caught the red light at Killian and 87th Ave. I never look up other then to look at the light but I did today. What a wonderful way to honor him.



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/18/2006 11:17:23 By Terrence W. Grant
I'm proud to say I was one of Jerry's closest friends and in fact was the last one to see him before his death. We were always together at CGHS and then the U of Miami. He and I met two stewardess's for Eastern Airlines...his gal Pumpkin was a sweetheart. Jerry quit college to become a MDPO and get married and be a father. All this happened within a year. Mel told me that Pumpkin has also passed. I picture of Jerry, myself, Tom Southard, Marvin Barnhart, & Ernie Knighton is always with me....only Ernie and I are still left...one hell raising group and three of them died well before their 30's



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/19/2006 04:18:07 By John Dannelly 1957
OFFICER JEROME R. CHRISTMAN AVENUE

The northern-most Christman Avenue sign is at the intersection of SW 87th Avenue and SW 104 Street. The southern-most Christman Avenue sign is at the intersection of SW 87th Avenue and SW 112 Street.

Until I receive more specific information from the PBA I am assuming the section of SW 87th Avenue that is named in honor of our brother Jerry Christman begins at SW 104 Street and continues south to SW 112 Street.





Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/19/2006 05:33:30 By Gaston Ruiz (1968)
I drive everyday thru that intersection to get to my place of business, I see it all the time and never knew who the officer was , but always wondered why?????? As I drove by it today , I felt HONORED to know we had a connection.. ... As I stood at the light and did the STAGS honk oo-ooo the guy in front of me gave me the finger for honking , I smiled and waived at guy ....I'm sure Jerry was listening and SMILED along with me and all the other BROTHERS in heaven....as the guy drove off.....



Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/19/2006 05:47:13 By Herb Stebbins(68)
Gaston, I guess in some ways we never grow up and in some ways I hope I never do. I was tempted to go back last night and throw a Stags Reunion T-Shirt over the sign. With my luck lately I probably would have been all over the front page of the Miami Herald this morning.
For those interested do a Google or Yahoo search on Jerome R. Christman. Click on the link for "The Officer Down Memorial, Inc."




Re: IN THEIR MEMORYPosted at 07/19/2006 08:54:49 By David
I AM SO GLAD PEOPLE ARE NOTICING THESE SIGNS. I WILL RETIRE DEC. 31, 2006 ALONG WITH MY WIFE. COMBINED WE WILL HAVE 56 YEARS AS LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICERS.

THE PBA HAS BEEN CONDUCTING MEMORIALS FOR ALL OFFICERS KILLED IN THE LINE OF DUTY. EVEN BEFORE POAT STARTED ORGANIZING IT. POAT AND COPS ORGANIZATIONS TAKE CARE OF ALL FAMILY MEMBERS OF SLAIN OFFICERS AND WILL CONTINUE TO DO SO.

THE MONTH OF MAY IS PLOICE MEMORIAL MONTH AND IS OBSERVED THROUGHOUT THE NATION. SEVERAL YEARS AGO PROFESSOR WILBANKS, (FIU) WROTE A BOOK ON ALL THE OFFICERS KILLED IN THE LINE OF DUTY IN MIAMI-DADE COUNTY DATING BACK TO THE LATE 18